Children, Empathy and Pets
How do your children treat the animals they share their lives with? Do they care for and gently tend to their needs? If they do, then they have empathy for them. That is, they tend to put themselves in their pets situation and treat them as they themselves would like to be treated if they were that pet.
Research is showing that children lacking empathy with animals grow up to lack empathy for their fellow human beings.
Sadly many animals are abused by people who also abuse their very own family members. Alas, many of these animals do not live through this experience and many children are mentally scarred in the process.
We are role models to our children, and having compassion for animals and fellow humans can be destroyed through abnormal family upbringings.
Therefore when we bring a pet into our homes, we have an enormous responsibility in ensuring our children learn to treat that animal with dignity.
When we decide to give a pet as a Christmas present, we need to be sure, for our children’s sake, that this pet is going to have responsible loving owners for the whole of its life.
Getting rid of the dog because it digs up the garden, chews the hose, jumps up or is an inconvenience when the family want to go on holidays, not only teaches our children that animals aren’t worth consideration, but also teaches them how to shrug off responsibility and take the easy way out of a situation.
So think carefully before bringing a pet into your home this Christmas. If you can do so with commitment and empathy, you will give your children some of the best experiences and lessons for life. If not, both your child and the pet will suffer the consequences.
Carmel Hodgins
Delta Certificate IV Dog Behavioural Trainer
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